January 2010 Newsletter: Staying Focused on Goals

Achieving Your Goals:

How to stay focused How many times have you set seemingly achievable New Year’s resolutions only to find yourself having broken them just weeks later? Have you ever wondered why this keeps happening? It all comes down to our values! Every individual lives by a set of unique priorities or values. This means that we all uniquely have things we perceive are most important in our life. All our perceptions and decisions are based on those values. So the reason why we don’t succeed in achieving our goals is that they are not aligned with these most important values.

Whatever is highest on our values is where we have our discipline, focus, order and dedication, whatever is lowest on our list of priorities is where we have disorder, chaos and where we procrastinate. The secret to achieving your goals and transforming your life, and this could be in any area of life such as family, work, making money or spending time with others, is to set them congruent to your highest priorities or values. You will be rewarded with more energy, vitality, confidence, certainty and purpose. You’ll be doing what you love, you’ll be inspired by your life and work more efficiently towards creating what you intend.

I Should…

Any time you hear yourself saying that you ‘should’ achieve something, it’s not you talking. A ‘should’ is somebody else’s value that has been forced into your life. You will recognize your highest values because there are no ‘shoulds’ about doing them. You don’t need something or someone on the outside pushng you to achieve them and you can always find energy to do them. This is because your highest values are inspired from within.

The life you are already living is the biggest indicator of your true values. So if you say that you really want to get fit but on closer inspection you see that you don’t do any exercise, then it’s not among your highest values and it probably won’t happen. For further information on determining your values join Dr Demartini at his upcoming Breakthrough Experience programs where you will learn how to identify your values and how to set goals congruent to your unique fingerprint of values.

Contact the Demartini Institute for more information