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Relationships
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Balancing
Emotions
A New Language for Change
It has been
stated for centuries that ignorance and unrealistic idealisms
can be a source of much of human suffering. Often the feelings
of depression and victim-hood and many psychosomatic ailments
are the direct result of these imbalanced expectations or
perceptions.
In these two
live CDs Dr. John F. Demartini will present two practical
and innovative methodologies called The Quantum Collapse
TherapyŽ and The Great DiscoveryT that can assist you in
bringing these emotional imbalances back into order thereby
alleviating much of your stress, aggravation and / or illness.
Dr. Demartini will then present his approach for quickly
dissolving any unnecessary fears and guilt, which will help
you experience a more loving presence and he will also outline
his Four Cardinal Pillars of Healing. His presentation will
practical, informative and certainly inspirational.
Special
Price:
$40.00
Order
your copies today!
Email: sales@drdemartini.com
Toll free: 1-888-DEMARTINI
On the web: www.drdemartini.com
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Between positively and negatively charged particles
is a center point of light. Between positively and negatively
charged emotions is the center point of love. The center point
is what every human being already is, yet elusively still seeks.
True love is our ultimate objective, whether we're aware of it
or not. We may think we're looking for something else, something
material and fleeting, but even the pursuit of transient goals
just leads us back to the truth of love. The purpose of all relationships
is to dissolve the barriers that keep us from recognizing the
love that already is and expressing the love we ultimately are.
We each have a hierarchy of values; from the
things we think are extremely important, all the way down to the
things we think don't matter. Your values dictate your destiny.
Anything that supports your highest values you call "good" and
are attracted to; anything that challenges them you call "bad"
and are repelled by. Your values are based on the perception that
something is missing, that a void exists. But the Law of Conservation
says that nothing is missing, it's just in a form you haven't
recognized. You think you're missing it; therefore, you seek it,
and anything you think supports that search you call good and
anything that challenges it you call bad. Our values determine
the way in which we conduct our relationships.
There are three ways to conduct a relationship,
and each one has an entirely different outcome. A careless relationship
is one in which you project and focus on your own values without
considering your partner at all. A careful relationship is when
you think in terms of your partners values without considering
you own.this one is called "walking on eggshells". Both are one-sided
approaches that ignore the other person and create tension in
the relationship. But a caring relationship is one where you communicate
your values in terms of theirs. You think of both sides simultaneously,
expressing your love for yourself and each other. The definition
of caring is knowing someone well enough to know their values
and caring enough to express your values in terms of theirs. Whenever
something supports your values, you take away the rules, and when
something challenges your values, you set rules. Nations do it,
companies do it and you do it in relationships. You set up rules
when your values feel threatened.
Often when we're in a relationship, we unwisely
think the other person is supposed to be like us but if any two
people are exactly the same, one of them is unnecessary. The purpose
of a relationship is to teach us to love the parts we've disowned.
Each person has their own set of values and no two people have
the same set.
Each person expresses love through his or her
own values. When we honor our partners value system, we realize
that we're surrounded by love in forms we don't even recognize.
The power to transform your life is in your heart. You only need
the courage to open it.
Love and Wisdom
John. F. Demartini
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Please join us for "Myths, Mirrors &
Magic" a two day seminar on Relationships
presented by Dr. John Demartini.
This will be held in San Diego, CA on October
11th & 12th, 2003. If registered by October 1st. the
cost is $850 for couples and $525 for individuals.
After this date the cost is $1000 for couples and $600 for
individuals.
For additional information and to register:
Toll free 1-888-DEMARTINI
Email: info@drdemartini.com
Dr. Ken Graham 760/945-8282 in San Diego
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