There Are No Victims
      -- by Dr. John Demartini

An Excerpt from the book, “The Breakthrough Experience -
A Revolutionary New Approach to Personal Transformation”

Dear Friends,

Many people say, “Well if there is a God, why does he let so many terrible things happen, like battered women, illness and war? What about all the innocent victims?”

Domestic violence is more than just a touchy subject today; it’s a way of life for millions of women who feel trapped and frightened by it. Many battered spouses have attended the The Breakthrough Experience, women who have been beaten up in one relationship after another. But first appearances are often deceiving. Repetitive violence is not the ‘fault’ of the ‘abusers’; these so called victims batter themselves inside, put themselves down and think they’re worthless. They commonly receive an overly gentle and elevating support from others that compensates and balances, and they sometimes become martyrs for the purpose of this support. They minimize themselves and do not acknowledge that they are magnificent or of value to the world, and they keep associating with and drawing in men to treat them that same way.

When I take them through The Quantum Collapse Process and help them see why they’re beating themselves up inside and how their unappreciated qualities served them and other people, they raise their self-worth. When they go home, without even saying anything, their family or relationship changes. They either move on and no longer get caught in those cycles, or the person they’re with spontaneously stops beating them.

This is not meant to excuse ‘violent’ actions, or say they are good, but the moment you honor yourself and stop thinking you’re worthless, so will your partner. There’s a dynamic going on; it’s not a violent villain and an innocent victim, it’s a team playing out a balancing duality. When you understand what’s actually happening, you see that it is perfectly ordered, and with two people teaching each other how to grow in self-worth and love.

“There are no victims, just lessons in love.”

Love and Wisdom,

John

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